Bone Eater However, we can get

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However, we can get the strength from others around us who have been through the same. I am so happy to see how this website has grown to be the island in the Web for the people who are hurting, not knowing what they are doing wrong in their relationship, not knowing it is not about them, but that they are dealing with a mentally disturbed individual. It is such a relief to realize the fault is not in you. But even after realizing that the scars remain. The Bone Eater news is that those scars will heal with time. It is up to us how well and how fast they will heal. If we direct our energy into Bone Eater things like helping others by sharing our experiences as you have done by sending your story instead of dwelling in memories and sinking deeper into depression, the scars will heal faster. I know how hard it is not to sink into that dark place after separation. It is easy to say direct your energy into positive things, it is much harder to actually do it. The key thing is to understand that you actually CAN do it. You are much stronger than you think. You may feel now that you will never get completely over the ending of the relationship. Dear Friend, you are still locked behind the invisible bars your own mind has created. You alone hold the power to release yourself. Read this article to learn more about this topic: How to Leave a Narcissist. Do not give in, do not succumb to the depression. To learn more about controlling ones emotions instead of letting the emotions control you, read this article: How to Control Negative Emotions. Dear Friend, I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. I know how deep the mental wounds are after having experienced such dishonesty and mental abandonment. You say you feel sorry you are now living in a remote location, far from your friends and children. Is there no way you could move to another location? If you stay in your present location it is harder for you to recover, because everything reminds you of the life you planned to have with your ex husband. I wish there would be a way for you to change the environment. I believe that would be extremely beneficial for you. I know it can be very challenging, depending on your possibilities of getting a job elsewhere. But as the saying goes, where there is a will, there is a way. Dear Friend, you have stayed in that place for years. You are still feeling torn inside. Please see if there is a way for you to relocate yourself. Talking about sayings, sometimes when I have been feeling down it has been very helpful and encouraging to listen to a good song. There are many great songs in this world Bone Eater can give hope and inspire people during various circumstances. There are many songs that can inspire and encourage people on their journey to the light, away from the dark realms of depression, out of the world of a narcissist that has nothing to offer but more pain and despair. I decided to post here the words of one song that inspired me see below. I wish these words will give strength to all those of you who are trying to free yourself from the mental hooks a narcissist has embedded into your brain. The song is called The First of Me. You can probably find in online and listen to it, if you like I also put address below to a page where you can listen to it. The words are as if directly written to all of us, who have been struggling or are still struggling in a relationship with a narcissistic person. Each word, each sentence in this song touched me. Listening to this song gave me strength during my moments of weakness. It can do the same for you.